Being the youngest child in a family is the best
Being the youngest has perks that older siblings don’t get to experience
January 7, 2020
Being the youngest child in a family is better than being the middle or the oldest child. Each child in the family is given a role. The oldest child is usually looked at as the “experiment” child, meaning the parents are experiencing everything for the first time with this child. The middle child is usually looked at as the “forgotten” one in the family or the “overlooked” one. Finally, the youngest child is looked at as the one that gets everything and gets the most attention because they are the “baby” of the family. Being the youngest child is the best because they get perks that the older sibling(s) didn’t have.
The perks of being the youngest child are endless. First, they never get blamed for anything because the parents often set the blame on the older sibling(s), or they say “they were only following your example.” The youngest child can also learn from the oldest sibling’s mistakes and remember not to do certain things that might set their parents off. Another advantage of being the youngest is that they get privileges the older sibling didn’t have at their age. For example, even if the oldest child wasn’t allowed to get a phone until they were 13, the youngest sibling often gets a phone around age 10 because the parents have more experience with it at that point. They are looked at as being more trusted compared to the older siblings because parents are more likely to trust something when they’ve been through it before with the eldest sibling.
Youngest children are also described as “spoiled” which is most definitely true. They never run out of clothes because they can get hand me downs from their older sibling(s) or they just take their clothes and wear them anyway. They also get more attention from their parents when their older sibling(s) go to college. The youngest sibling is spoiled because they are the parent’s last “baby” in the house so they often get whatever they want. Many would agree that being the youngest child is better simply because it is easier for them as the youngest, the older sibling(s) paved the road for them.
Fabian Chavez-Catala • Mar 13, 2024 at 8:54 pm
Totally agree. I am the youngest of 5 kids. Everything you said is True. And I loved it. I’ve learned to see the time in a clock early rather than to be Told “You still don’t learn” Well I’ve learned to read at 4 years old. And I demanded my parents To go school. So I did Kindergarten with 4 years old. I ended up with 95% Average Calificacion. Teachers didn’t want me in 1st grade with 5 years. But I earned. I finished Senior Highschool with 95 % approve califications. I am 56 years old and I still am “The Cabro Chico” Little Kid
Will • Dec 27, 2022 at 8:59 pm
This is not true IMO i am the youngest and you are “The last baby” but you are the baby all the time… 12. baby. 15? baby. 21??? BABY it is not all fun and games
Marsha • Sep 29, 2022 at 8:08 am
Correct one even my younger sibling had enjoyed this
Rounak Rajak • Jun 12, 2022 at 8:39 pm
It very helpful to my essay
Liezel • Nov 12, 2021 at 9:52 am
I’m the youngest but I did not experience what others experience being love by the family…it seems i did not enjoy being young…hahaha i have a lot of bad experience in my sibling …hit me so bad…
abcd • Apr 28, 2021 at 1:28 pm
It depends where you see it from as the youngest your going to think its not true, but me as the oldest believes this is true I think it really does depend on the family
Josh • Dec 4, 2020 at 9:35 am
Yea this sounds very steriotypical. I was the youngest and it was not fun and games.
I didn’t get any special treatment and I essentially had to tag long or have by brother with me whenever I wanted to go do things with my friends. Depends on the family I guess, but as the youngest, I didn’t get to really do my own thing until my brother left for college and I was a senior in high school. If I didn’t get the 3.9 GPA he had (I had maybe a 3.6 or 3.7) I was asked why I couldn’t be like my brother.
Also when he went to college, he got the first round of loan cosigns for a few years, I got one cosign and had to do the rest on my own.
Being the youngest in families can be good if it is the stereotypical balanced family. But for most people, maybe its because I am a male, but it is not fun to be on the bottom of the pecking order.
Chloe • Oct 19, 2020 at 7:33 pm
Some of this is true but most of it isn’t. First of all, you are always the last to do anything. Driving? Drinking? Going anywhere? Crossing the STREET by yourself? Sure your path is paved but that just means you don’t have any funny stories or pictures. Goodness forbid you don’t get the same grades as your sister. On top of that, you catch SO MUCH flak for being the youngest. Your sister gets the privilege of complaining about how you got a phone the same time as her or how you get spoiled. This might just be me, but my sister asks for stuff way more than me. I never grow up in my parents eyes or my sister’s. I can’t change how I want to dress because they know best. Sorry for ranting on here, I promise I don’t mean to sound angry if it comes off like that. Plus the capitalization is just for emphasis.
Logan • Oct 16, 2020 at 7:20 am
I’m last born and most of this is inaccurate. I’m not spoiled and I didn’t always get the attention. Most of these are just stereotypes.
Rachel Waldron • Sep 18, 2020 at 10:55 pm
Thank you from Washington State! Abby, this was just what my youngest son needed to hear when his older brother got the privilege of staying up late and he did not.