Set aside the fear of failing and work to accomplish goals

Start what you’ve always wanted to do now

As a musician, when I tell people what instruments I play, I typically get the response “I wish I could play such-and-such instrument.” When I ask them what stops them, it’s usually an “I don’t know, I just haven’t started” or “I don’t think I’ll be good.” I’ve heard the same from people perpetually “planning their novels,” or hoping to exercise more. Sometimes it’s a matter of money or time, which is understandable, but when people simply hold themselves back they should dispel the fear of failure, take the plunge and start doing something that they may enjoy.

It’s true that when starting something new, unless you have some undiscovered innate talent, you’ll probably be not so great. That’s because you’re a beginner, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Practice, repetition and learning will help you get to the next level. The reason why people are so scared of failing is because they are comparing themselves to those who have experience already. To quote pastor Steven Furtick’s remark in the article “Why Writers Are The Worst Procrastinators” by Megan McArdle, “The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.”

Once over the fear of failure, anyone with Internet connection has tutorials or lessons for practically any hobby or interest at their disposal. Online communities such as forums or blogs provide a place to troubleshoot and share thoughts. Events like National Novel Writing Month or “30 day challenge” prompts provide the motivational push to start a project.

Next time you’re bored on a day off, recall what goal you’ve been putting off “until you get better,” and use it to improve instead. Write your novel, play your song, run your 10K or learn how to knit. You could discover your new passion, and your future self will be thankful.

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